Soul is both Male and Female
Overcoming negative cultural sterotypes
Love making between too souls on any level is exactly that. Whilst gender exists on a certain level, on other levels it simply blends away and is irrelevant. We live in society obsessed with norms of gender that tends to ignore that we are all essentially both male and female and need to connect with both aspects of ourselves and balance these two. Some of us souls may feel we connect more with one gender and some of us may feel we connect equally with both. These are energies for us to play with and work with.
For example, at the end of a chi kung session it is routine for women to rub their tan tien anticlockwise (to disperse) and then clockwise (to condense). This is simply for anyone wanting to connect with feminine energies to do and something that anyone can experiment with doing both ways. Someone who is transitioning can use the practices to bring out their masculine or feminine qualities. These are simply tools that anyone can use to connect with the energies they want to connect with and to empower themselves. There is no morality. The only thing the Taoists say is to be aware of is that masculine sexual energy (we all have it) is quite unstable and needs to be balances with yin, either our own or that of a partner.
Love making between Women
This has been a common practice amongst Taoist women for millennia. A husband would often have many wives and concubines and they would routinely pleasure each other. It was considered healthy practice for women to make love together. It is a perfect chance to heal and nourish divine feminine energies.
The experience of intimacy between two women is dynamic with incredible potential for healing and exploring the healing love and sexual alchemy practices together. It is a unique opportunity to heal and to reach deep psychedelic and spiritual levels. Remember that Taoists consider women to be spiritually superior to men because of their energetic nature. It is a chance to play with and connect with inner forces of yin and yang and experiment with our relationships with these forces, and also to use massage techniques to help each other to clear out the emotional toxins from the yoni.
Oral sex is a highly regarded practice among Taoist and synchronous oral pleasure is considered a deeply spiritual practice and also is a good chance to circulate your microcosmic orbit together with that of your lover. Taoist love making is about going slow and gentle for maximum sensitivity and arousal while feeling deeply into the area being stimulated. Increased slowness and gentle touch increases sensitivity. If there is lack of sensitivity, massage to release the emotional toxins in the area can be helpful, of you might want to try an emotional detox full body and yoni massage.
A Taoist love making technique would be to lie together whilst having oral in total stillness and allow the energy to move. Preliminary work to awaken the energy flow may help, but the idea with this is that in stillness the energy will start to move. You can also experiment in this position with gentle and slow movements of the tongue, but the stillness is the position in which the energy will build up the most, and then you can work with the energy. Remember to always store your energy in your lower tan tien at the end of any session to prevent side effects like headaches.
Love Making between Men
The unique relationship between two men gives the potential to explore the yin and yang aspects within in a deep way. Male sexual energy needs to be balanced and gay or bisexual men contain incredible mixtures of masculine and feminine energies to various unique and beautiful degrees.
We all have microcosmic orbits and experimenting with different ways to get them to flow together is lots of fun. Taoist love making is about gentleness, stillness, and shallow penetration whilst allowing the energy to do the work. This increases sensitivity and with regular practice of Taoist Inner Alchemy your body become multi orgasmic and you can become so sensitive and a simple touch or even a directed thought is enough to send waves of orgasmic pleasure through your body.
Prostate massage is very healthy and learning to find your own and your lovers prostate and playing with different pressure and touch to clear and heal this area as well as unlocking the orgasmic potential of this area is highly beneficial. Orgasmic energy is very healing when combined with love energy of the Heart, it heals the body on the cellular level because of the vibrations that it creates. Practicing to move your sexual energy into your Heart is an incredible experience which leaves your whole body feeling incredible. Moving it to your brain gives a clear headed rush that is very focusing. Remember to always store your energy in your lower tan tien at the end of any session to prevent side effects like headaches.